Got back on Tinder and OkCupid. I’m not invested in the outcome and that is the perfect mindset to date. Just nice conversations that lead to nothing. Being healed isn’t a prerequisite to dating them. It’s better that I’m not. Most men want to date a woman who’s like their dog: perky, cute and obedient. … Continue reading ISO.


I typically hate gratitude posts. They remind me of tithing: if it isn’t done in the proper spirit it can come off as gimmicky and trite. But something about the questions in Morgan’s posts makes me want to probe deeper. My theme for 2022 is “Sow What?” This year, and probably through the end of … Continue reading Thanks.

This book gets me.

How to Suffer Outside: A Beginner’s Guide to Hiking and Backpacking (Helmulth)